We stayed there and watched the whole procedure. The kids absorbed everything. They stared intently while they strapped Rich onto the stretcher and slid him into the back of the ambulance vehicle (the one that hit them got the front right tire completely knocked off so it was on the side of the road.) Another one came to take care of things. They loved watching the tow truck driver lift the messed up car onto the back of his truck bed. They saw how Eileen had tubes in her nose to give her oxygen. All of this they took mental note of so they could act it out later.
I've told the kids time and time again that we put our seat belts on so that if we ever get into an accident, we would be more safe. We've driven by accidents before and we've said a prayer for those involved but this experience really left an impression upon them and now they are independently safety conscious.
They drew pictures for Rich and Eileen and we bought some flowers to take to them. It helped the kids see that it is our responsibility as Christians to find ways of providing comfort and support to people who have gone through something hard or discouraging. Orion was especially pleased with Eileen's response to his picture. He got some white paper and scribbled with a black marker. He gave it to her and said, "This is your car". Her face lit up and enthusiastically agreed, "This is EXACTLY what my car looks light! You are a fabulous artist! You drew it perfectly!" She held it to her chest as a type of souvenir of the experience. They really loved their car and had no idea what they were going to do without a vehicle. (So as it turned out, they had a friend who they had studied the Bible with off and on and he bought a $5,500 newer model Subaru with less mileage for them as a gift! The Lord provides, can I hear an amen?!)
This is the right side of the ambulance that hit them |
The experience provided a great teaching moment regarding Sabbath observance too. As we stood there Orion judgmentally declared with a haughty voice intonation, "Mom, they are working on the Sabbath!" I gently reminded him that Jesus healed on the Sabbath and refreshed his memory with a Scripture song we had previously memorized "It is lawful to do well on the Sabbath day." It was neat to see the truth of that verse sink, his countenance softening as I asked, "If we had gotten into an accident today, wouldn't you want people to be available to help us?"
As Paul Tripp points out, we don't live life based on the bare facts, but upon our interpretation of those facts. It's neat to see their wheels turning and be able to help them interpret life through Scriptural lenses and to see them forming their own values and identity upon that platform.
I really enjoy your posts :) I wish I could keep watching them grow up! Oh, and I had no idea Eileen and Rich got into a car accident :( Are they okay now? Or are they still quite shaken up?
ReplyDeleteYeah, Rich and Eileen are okay. They aren't shaken up anymore. There were no serious injuries, just Rich's head got some stitches. They got a new car so everything is alright. It was a faith builder for them if anything. They saw how God provided for them and protected them. We miss you!
DeleteWise and insightful as usual. Loved that last part. Love the way kids think!
ReplyDeleteThanks Mary! I look forward to reading about the way your kids think!
DeleteYou're doing a great job, Hope, of chronicling life events and their response, and lessons learned, and values adopted as a result, in light of eternity. I always enjoy reading and seeing the pictures and growing along with them...watching them become Christ-like in character.
ReplyDeleteHome journalism in light of eternity.
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